Check yes in the S&M box.  Then read some of the reviews.  I can't say for sure, but I don't think FS is generally included in BDSM sessions.

Swim

such as FS, BJ, etc.

That's not to say that there aren't plenty of providers who do provide various forms of BD/SM and will include many types of sexual services as well.

I have seen one gal who is great at whipping which I've begun to enjoy, but she still gets my rocks off.  It's the best of both worlds.

Fortunately it's a big ocean out there full of gals willing to serve up just about anything you would like.

The section in profile will say s n m , either heavy, light, or dont knoe, or no. Mine says no personally. I do a little strap on play with dominant talk , and have done the guy drinking my piss thing. Queening. I dont pre plan it or offer scripted sessions. As for bdsm that isnt listed in our profiles. I been paddled, in four point restraints but not with a stranger or cliennt. I know theres a national top 100 -girl caramel dime her profile lists s n m heavy.Unsure what your money situation is but if I were a hobbyist Id save up and start off with one the best in tge nation. You may even learn exactly what it is you enjoy , if you dont know yet since youve never tried it yet.I heard several escorts once mention on boards that if a client started using the dirty talk like " dirty whore suck that dick like you mean it. " I think dont take an initiative with just us regular ladies with anything too over top. I do the really derogatory talk simetimes but I know some wouldnt enjoy that. Then  I hung with a man who saw dommes he said what mr fisher said they get offended when he asked if he can eatvthem out. I think this other one I see is really popular gina rollins. Maybe if you get screened and just let them.know you never tryed and if thetes anything they can try for you to get the feet wet like you say. Maybe theyd be able to intuitively go in a direction you l like. Once you know exactly what you like and want. Its funner for everyone.
I d look for profiles that say heavy in s n m. And start with ne the most successful that way with less skilled ladies thete after you be able to know exactly what dirwction to go in at the appt. I petsonaly recently had a client who had seen a way more s n m oriented provider before me. He went on and on over cages on.dick restraints licking boots ,I dont do anythat stuff, but yes youd know by reading my reviews.

This is a great question for the BDSM board.

I believe some do and some don't offer a release during this type of session, but you'd get a better idea on that board in this case.

Steph