Just curious, what are your thoughts on situations where there's a significant age gap, like someone in their 50s with a woman in her early 20s?
For me, I have no issue with it and appreciate older men for many reasons —how they typically treat you, their understanding, maturity, and experience. When you see such couples, are you more like "good for them" or "what's going on there?" And what if the roles were reversed, with a woman in her 50s and a man in his early 20s?
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I know a lot of providers won't see men under a certain age. I love older men because I find them so sexy and love to learn from them, the way they treat me, etc but it can be a totally different experience to see a younger gentleman and that is fun to me too. I like the variety!
I have a game I play with the one friend who knows of my life in the biz - we guess if a couple is a pro/client. I swear I'm always right!!
a provider-client or civie relationship?
...Excellent post miss freya summer. I raely venture away from the General Discussion Board, but today I was perusing and just happened to notice this thread by you, with your invitation "let's discuss" on a very intresting topic! I wish more of this happened on the forum boards...
Regarding your question, I am almost 57 (1 month); I joined TER in Early June, trying to get back into the "dating"/p4p scene after a long hiatus (I had hired and been with "Escorts" in my younger days 1992-2006 except when I had the one and only real life civilian girlfriend during that time.....Back then I had NO Preference for the age or maturity of the woman, I was just happy to get a decent looking competent, NON-Intoxicated woman of anu age. Back then before the internet became so central to sex-work, YOU NEVER KNEW WHAT YOU MIGHT GET when calling for an escort.
Today, at 57, I prefer older mature women myself (age 40 thru late 50s) .... but I also can and will appreciate ANY woman regardless of chronological age who is "mature", and Kind and Loving and accepting (I use a wheelchair due to my lifelong disability, and some women are much better off accepting that than others.) I've met some amazing under-30 women who turned out to be extremely mature and wise and kind.....that's a treat.
Bottomline, I take my female providers like I do all people....One at a time! Excellent post & question
As an "older" man playing in this realm, I much prefer younger women. I seem to gravitate toward those ladies that are under 30.
I find them to be more attractive, and frequently the body type I prefer - petite and thin.
Of course, what is in their profiles is often not correct - many times they are years older than described. That is why I read the reviews to get a sense of their actual age.
I’d be curious to know if most providers have a top end limit to the men they’re willing to see, or at least are somewhat comfortable seeing. Not quite Medicare eligible yet, but it’s also not too far off.
I am 45 years young & think there is no substitute for experience. Before I created mi familia it was fun to be with young women in their early 20’s, but now that I am a mother it’s less attractive. Life is fun!
The best sex I've had has been with women 40+, whether they were "working girls" or not.
I've seen providers ranging from 21 to mid 30s. I generally prefer at least late 20s. I would like to try someone in her 50s. I'm only in my early 40s.
It's been years since I slept with anyone older than me, and that was only by a couple years. Civilian dating, I was mid 35, she was 37.
I am 70,so 40 and older,more experience!