But I think that's something else!

Sex was Vanillia....
Plain and simple... mechanical."Vanilla World"
The term Vanilla come from's the Dom and Submissive....Fetish...
I know there is more....
That is my assumption...my 2 cents.
For the record I'm Not VANILLA!!!!!!
Smooches
Molly

From what i understand, it means that sex was plain and uniform like a vanilla ice cream. But that doesn't necessarily mean its bad or boring. When you go to Ben and Jerrys and you see all the different flavors available, you're like thinking to yourself what to get as some combinations are just to strange or they might not be that flavorful, so you opt for vanilla, the can't miss flavor, plain and simple but can't miss.  It's like you can't go wrong with vanilla but you don't get that special extra.

vanilla....boring!...me...I'll have a hot fudge mammado...heavy on the maggots and

with a cherry on top.
make that 2 cherries, my friend.

Now that's what I call the opposite of vanilla.


Baddabing!

it's pretty much like Molly said. I initially heard the term when I used to see a Dom in my private life and hung out in the Dom/sub chat rooms. Anything that wasn't a little "racier" was considered vanilla. Like just your basic missionarry marital sex, not that all married couples have vanilla sex many many dont. It's usually just the bare minimum to be able to collect on a session. Kind of like when your in a relationship for a while and you can predict before it happens that his/her next move it. You know like he starts out nuzzling my ear, spends 20 seconds on each nipple, then puts it in and has an orgasm and its over. On the reverse tip I'd think it would be like a provider having you undress lie down, nuzzle your neck for 5 seconds, nuzzle your chest for 5 more, suck your dick long enough to get it hard the on goes a baggy and she either jumps on or usually insists on missionarry. And them bang you cum, nothing exciting, nothing to tell your buddies about, the bare minimum. just my take on it. Like Molly said we used to call anything "straightlaced" vanilla but I think when guys post it here they mean a bit more like what I posted. Dom/sub's when they use it they mean people that aren't involved in "the life"
my 2 nickles.
Samantha

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