Can someone please show me where it says that I’ll put client’s info out there? I must have early onset of dementia because I have zero recollection of ever thinking that, saying that, or writing it. This is also a friendly reminder to get my eyes checked because I must need glasses as I can’t seem to find that statement that you all see in my ad copy.
I was browsing this nice provider site when I came across this ad. She requires a deposit.
She requires the following for screening:
MUST PROVIDE: A selfie holding a photo ID showing your full name (all other personal info can be blocked out). Deleted after screening.
Or
A reputable reference. Please include their contact info and confirm the contact info they’d have for you.
Normal so far.
And then this: No review policy. If you post a review on me without my consent, it’s fair game for me to post a review about you on a public platform.
The kicker is she has reviews on TER as both a singles and a doubles provider. But threatens to put your information out in public?? SMH.
I guess it's safe to assume the guys that did write a review of her got permission. Nevertheless, what she is threatening is highly unprofessional and bad branding on her part. The only brownie points I would give her is at least she is honest and upfront about her threat. Any man that books with her without doing their due diligence such as you did and get blasted for posting a review of her is on them.
She can't "out" you if she doesn't have your info, now can she? So use a reference.
Besides, she didn't say she'd out anyone - she said she'd review you.
Did you read her ad? She clearly asks for real ID or references. For those who choose to provide ID, she now has a way to "out" you.
Her exact quote from her ad: "If you post a review on me without my consent, it’s fair game for me to post a review about you on a public platform."
She says public platform, ie. Facebook, Twitter, etc. What do you think she is going to do with your real information? Do you really believe she is ONLY going to say something like he is a jerk and sucks in bed? Or is it more logical this angry, pissed off woman is going to publish your REAL information to show the world that John Smith of suburbia is fucking prostitutes?
So like I said... USE A REFERENCE.
That's a no-brainer for me as I never give real info.
However, I think the OP's point was this provider is openly threatening to out someone whose Does give RL info.
And what else might she be doing to ensure client compliance?
She used the word review. Of course, I wouldn't trust her with my RWI but she is publicly claiming she's review the offender.
She's trying to juke her review stats. In reality, this is a threat against anyone who would leave a negative review. If a client has a bad appointment they aren't going to ask if they could leave a review and she isn't going to "consent" to it either. The only clients that are going to ask to leave a review are the ones that really like her and want to have a good time. She is only going to approve of clients she thinks will leave glowing reviews. Anyone thinking of writing a less than favorable review knows she would consider retaliation. Personally I would prefer these types of providers are removed from review sites.
There is an even simpler solution here. How about instead of using a reference you just see someone else? There are plenty of providers out there who do not threaten clients in their ads. The only thing we can do is vote with our wallets.
Can someone please show me where it says that I’ll put client’s info out there? I must have early onset of dementia because I have zero recollection of ever thinking that, saying that, or writing it. This is also a friendly reminder to get my eyes checked because I must need glasses as I can’t seem to find that statement that you all see in my ad copy.
FYI- My ‘no review’ policy was only implemented this year when I started enforcing my boundaries and stopped allowing clients to run the show. So, to say I cherry pick my reviews is B.S. bc I only ever found out of my reviews AFTER they were posted.
It’s my business, my body, my rules. I know have a voice and don’t care about pissing off a client if he insists I do something I don’t want to do, such as lick a shitty asshole. I’m not licking any client’s ass, ever. If I decide to kiss Client A but not Client B (bc of his rotted tooth and cavity smell), that is my choice!! With reviews giving my consent to every act described by the reviewer, new clients think they’ll get the same treatment without considering their own oral health, hygiene, and other unappetizing things.
Here’s a response to a review….
Please let me know who you think the person is since you few choose to believe writing a review on a client is a form of doxxing.
Dude sent a nice intro email with a short bio requesting an hour date, included both rwi and a reference for screening and was quick to send the deposit once we aligned on a date. Booking process made simple and easy and I was looking forward to meeting him.
Upon our scheduled date, he arrived an annoyingly 35 mins early so I rushed bc I loathe the idea of a client sitting around or lobby lurking while side eye-ing any male walking around the hotel and assuming that they just left my room, hotel male staff included. Nobody is safe.
I allow him up to the room and am reminded that 5’7” is the new 6’. Quickly removed my heels so the short king would feel more comfortable. So what? He fabricated his height by a few inches in his bio but was willing to look past that since he got a glowing reference. He looked a bit sweaty, and nervous and reeked of cigarettes- another thing he forgot to announce in his bio and now I’m turned off so much where I don’t know if I can even fake an orgasm for him.
I made the mistake of “asking” if he needed a shower instead of “telling” him he needed to shower. I got the typical, “I showered earlier”, and we know that “earlier” means 14 hours ago before work, so I know damn well that his balls smell like old cheese that sat outside in Aug for 3 days and his dick hasn’t been pulled out and stretched to wash properly so prob has a fishy smell. I suggest we shower together, giving him no choice but to oblige. I observe and wait for it. Sure enough, another man, who doesn’t wash his face, legs or feet, let alone take the washcloth and clean his shitty asshole. I show him how to properly wash. I know he’s the type to just run the water and pretend he showered when it’s a provider requirement.
Finally, I go over my rules and tell him to listen up bc it’s his final warning (I only repeat my rules once) and he’s not even trying to hide that he’s rolling his eyes and thinking, “here we go with another provider who doesn’t want to be touched, kissed or swallow my cum.” He’s giving incel vibes and surely thinking “I’m paying for it, my rules and I’ll pretend I accidentally couldn’t hold back my cum when I squirt on her forbidden place; her face.”
My hard stop is nothing rough- no hands around my next, don’t spit on my pussy or in my mouth or you better call for help. He dismisses my rules and now I wait for him to fuck up bc I’ll quickly and gladly end the session. Oh, he did ask one question, “how many pops do you allow?”. I lied, told him as many as he can, just to shut him up bc as stats would have it, 99% of them have PIPE dreams about cumming a 2nd time but if they insist, I enjoy watching them sweat, pant, get frustrated and basically need Tommy John after beating their dicks so rapidly just to prove to me that I was wrong about getting a second one out.
Now we play. I already put lube in me to give him the illusion that he turned me on in hopes that’ll make him cum quickly and get out. I refuse to kiss him and don’t allow him to lick me. He is irritated with that bc consent was provided upon my behalf from a past reviewer, that I allowed that. He’s disappointed that I’m not offering the services that the reviewer advertised for me. I explain that the nasty cig smoke will fuck up my PH, He confidently gloats, “But, I’m a pleaser”. Again, laughing hysterically in my head, bc if I had a dollar for every man that…..oh wait, nevermind. His dick was less than ideal; short and stubby. He wanted me to lick his balls bc again, consent was provided by a past reviewer, but I refuse bc I don’t lick forest balls. Nobody wants a mouth full of hair. I now smell something rancid down there and notice he has a serious case of jock itch. Does he know how bad jock itch smells? Nasty, how is he even seeing providers with that.
He wants to fuck despite only having a semi-hard on and does not listen to my professional advice that putting a condom on while it’s barely hard, will.not.make.it.harder.!! But he insists, so I roll the condom on and ride him making only small rocking thrusts knowing his short dick is about to fall out. We go through every act TWICE and I even blew his flaccid gummy worm for over 20 mins straight, and he has almost lost his semi completely.. He asked to fuck again and NOW tells me it takes a really long time for him to cum, and most of the time he doesn’t at all. I snapped back, asking why he thought I was a miracle worker. He said, “so and so was able to get me to cum once before (of the 39x he’s booked with her). I think you can”. So I hand him the oil and wrap his own hand around his dick to jerk it. And, then say out loud, would you look at the time?! 2 mins until the date is over, so I start cleaning and laugh to myself again about, “how many pops do you allow?”
How did his reference give such a glowing review?!!!It must be YMMV. I will not repeat.
I honestly don't know how ladies deal with this shit on a daily basis.
Lexi, I appreciate you showing up and setting the record straight.
I have no issue with client reviews, just another level of security and comfort for the ladies. But I am sure if I got a review like this one, I would be mortified and rethink my life. I always thought the ladies shared this kind of information
Clients have no clue all the unappetizing things we overlook in an effort to provide a good experience. If we started reciprocating reviews, I guarantee, they would never write a review again.
I get wanting to read reviews that are objective (safe, as advertised, promptness, etc), but not subjective. Encounters are often personalized for that individual person, so to assume you’ll receive the same exact treatment will only set yourself up for disappointment.
A large portion of reviews are fabricated, fake, written by a scorned client or someone that was declined (nothing deflates a man’s ego more than when he can’t get laid with a fistful of hundreds), jealous provider, ex-partner, etc