If you arrange for a meeting with a lady in NYC and she does not ask for identification prior to the meeting should you be concerned that this could be a sting?  I have arranged for a meeting, however, unlike other ladies, she has only asked that we meet in a public place to chat first.  She has not asked for the usual information or references.  There are reviews of her on TER, however, they are somewhat dated.  Could this be a set up?  Let me know your thoughts.