OMG Now her web site is down and all - If anyone knows how to contact her please let me know - 3 weeks until my trip
Already left her a message - it went to voice mail (3 weeks ago and again yesterday)
I hope she is OK, but no login since FebruarySometimes girls just decide to get out of the business and drop off the face of the hobbying landscape. That happened to my very first girl (who I shall not name). Fortunately, one of my other providers knew her well and told me that she found a boyfriend and wanted to settle down, get married and have children. I will tell you one thing- her husband is one fucking lucky dude.
I couldn't agree more. Many guys that hobby revert to high school crush mentality when that girl we are infatuated with won't return our calls. I think it stems from the fact a lot of us didn't get the cheerleader or homecoming queen or ever a really got a hot girl to give us the time of day. then along comes this hobby and some of the ladies are flat out tens. here they are laughing at our jokes and making all the sounds we want them to when we are together. They treat us like rock stars and it seems so real.
I've left after being with some of these ladies and couldn't get them out of my mind. So it can be real easy to get hooked on them. The fact is this is a fantasy and these ladies have a lot of clients regular and new. Plus they have their own lives. As was stated maybe she's on vacation, in the hospital , family emergency or a thousand other reasons for not returning you attempts to contact her. I've had the same experience with a lady I want to see in August. I've emailed her, and PMed her on both TER and P411. She hasn't returned my messages. I have to assume she is busy and hope she contacts me. Thankfully there are a "few" other ladies in Vegas who will treat me well. So as was said before its best to just leave it aloneThere are other ways to go about this!!
PMs for starters?? Why not message a lady who runs in the same circle?Why not message a gent who recently reviewed her?? If you care about her well being ............ You could be doing something to harm it by posting here. What if someone went off and started a relationship or a vanilla career and she is trying to distance herself from any online presence? You can never get ride of all of it, but if you truly care about her, you wouldn't want to do the exact opposite of what she wants.... If something happened with the second option that you claim, that is where PMs can come in handy. Besides, it would all be gossip anyway. This is a high school playground type of post and nothing good comes from it, ever.
High School playground type of post. For asking if a provider is still around. Lets get over ourselves people...
It brings DRAMA.
Like the same time of DRAMA that you find on a high school playground.
it will give you an idea of how MANY providers feel about these type of public inquires. And guess what, there are numerous ways to backchannel to find out about a provider who's gone MIA.
Looks like a lot of people on her are getting their panties in a bunch and some are causing drama and some are creating it.
The original post was badly written and made it sound desperate like he was stalking her. When all he wanting in fact was for someone to tell him he needed to move on and schedule with another provider. In telling him this no personal information would be given and he would have gotten the message she was no longer available at this time. Bond007 had the correct response and that was all that needed to be said. Now don't get me wrong. Safety is of the utmost importance for everyone. So if someone does go overboard on trying to find you, you should be protected. However if one of your friends or clients goes spilling your personal life out to some stranger then maybe you should reconsider who knows what and who you are telling about your personal life because you are compromising your own safety.That was all that I was concerned about
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