I am new to BDSM and need help with my new lady who just told me she likes to be dominated. She said she likes to be slapped and choked, grabbed up, spanked, she likes it when a man grabs her by the back of the head and says "good girl" while she sucks dick. She likes to be called slut and whore and tied up and whipped.
I asked what makes sex great for her and she said "when a man knows how to touch me, knows how to turn me on so that my pussy is craving him" Any advice is sincerely appreciated as I am new to this type of lifestyle but really like this lady.
When I was in need of advice on how to be a sensual Domina I looked for someone who was teaching. Nina Hartley had a dvd on sensual domination. Do a simple google search & find out about becoming a dominant Daddy. Watch videos available online. Have a safe word, like rainbow. 🌈 you obviously need to know the basics of BDSM. I don’t train for free, but you need a hands on training I would be happy to show you how. Couple friendly.
Thank you. The attitude of the previous response is a big reason I have been turned off by this lifestyle. Everytime I ask a woman who is into the lifestyle what her experience is I get the same dismissive response.
Everyone is different so general research is less useful than listening to your specific girl. . She gave you the general outline and now it is time to initiate actions without constantly consulting her. She wants spontaneity, she wants to be surprised, she wants to be taken. Time for asking her how to do that past. It's time to literally take the reins.
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