I'm in the bag with seeing a local regular.  I have occasionally seen someone on my bucket list, but pretty much stick with my regular.  Would like to have two regulars, for fall back reasons, but haven’t found a second yet.  This works for me cause I like the relationship that developes from having a regular more than the unknown cemistry of a new encounter.  This was recently brought home to me when I scratched one off my bucket list and was disappointed.  She was beautiful but we had no cemistry, and it made me appreciate my regular so much more.  She gives me what I want and I give her what she needs.

My experience with the hot visiting ladies has been spotty. I’ve had a couple that never responded to my inquiry and another just this week that didn’t provide the promised location information the night before. She emailed at 2:00am apologizing with a dubious excuse.  

I have a local provider that I see once or twice every month. She’s dependable, flexible, and fun in all respects to be with. There’s also an out of town lady that travels to see me two or three times a year. We usually see each other three days in a row for dinner, breakfast, and lunch dates, but not overnight. We’ve known each other for over 10years and she is very mature and beautiful.  At this point in my life, I’ll stick to these two.  It will take someone extraordinary to get my attention, time, and $$.