Like JohnGalt said, which, btw, I knew HE of all people would know what I'm fucking talking about.

You have certain expectations of certain people. Yes, in the hobby, too. At least when you get to know them to a degree. Then they go off and do something you wouldn't approve of, or condone. And proud they did it. So you get disgusted, and cut off ties to them.

I dig kinky ladies. I've had my ass beat by a couple of women. They took turns. Seen them seperately. also.

But just like every date is unique, so is every lady. And when one disappoints you, it's time to move on.

When it comes to providers, even though they may do things with other clients in which I wouldn't personally participate; it isn't something that adversely affects my opinion of them in most cases.

For example, I'd never personally participate in a gang bang. Not my cup of tea. The very idea grosses me out to no end. Yet, the lady I'm seeing in April has advertisements on her site for her participation in a very highly rated multiple-sex-partner experience. As far as I am concerned, as long as she doesn't try to abduct me at gunpoint and make me participate; the fact that *she* participates is of no real concern to me and doesn't affect my enjoyment of her company one-on-one.

As far as other sorts of kink go; with the exception of a provider or two who have booked me specifically for certain kinks that I can serve; I tend to reserve these for civie women. Providers get a pretty vanilla version of me. Yet, the fact that other hobbyists may participate in them with a given provider is not generally problematic for me.

HOWEVER -- we all draw various lines. Or, at least, those of us who are psychologically healthy do.

Would you schedule a date with a provider if you knew that less than an hour before 4 guys had shat in her mouth? If you knew she had a transmissible viral STD? If you knew that even though there was no financial necessity to do so, she accommodated the business of a hobbyist you both knew for a fact was a multiple-offender child molester?

In addition, in many respects I do not draw strong lines between providers and civie women; and hence hold providers to the same standards as I would a civie woman in many respects. You can tell a LOT about a person by his/her choices concerning sex partners. Granted, you can tell a bit less when money is involved; but money doesn't make the issue disappear.

There ARE lines. You and I may differ as to where they are drawn specifically, but somewhere, in any healthy person, there is a line where you'll say: "No way will I touch this woman."

Because I guarantee that you don't know what woman I am referencing as I'm referring to something 18 months ago outside of your area.

Furthermore, I am answering his GENERAL idea -- not anything specific.

If you have a specific beef with MP67 -- bring it up with him -- he's a big boy.

If you have a beef with ME -- which I cannot imagine why you would -- that's fine.

You, as an escort, draw lines about who you will and won't see; and nobody has a right to question that. There are escorts that refuse to see clients under or over certain ages (age discrimination), the refuse to see men of certain races (racial discrimination), they refuse to see hobbyists who have previously seen TS providers (sexual orientation discrimination), etc. etc. etc. ad nauseam.

And you, as a woman, have an absolute right to do that. You can exclude a hobbyist for any reason whatsoever because it is YOUR body, and nobody has a right to override that choice.

Well, guess what? Dominion over one's own body is not solely a female matter. Men have that same right and dominion. And we have the right to exclude an escort for any reason whatsoever, including that we don't like the way she spells her name. And you have no more right to question the man's choices, than he has to question yours.

And BOTH have a right to exclude others based upon their other choices. You have NO default right to put your hands on my body except under terms and conditions that are solely within my domain to extend.

Fair enough?

Meanwhile, I think your beef is with MP67. If it is -- feel free to take it up with him -- I'm not privy to the specifics.

You can see whomever you want to see, when you want to see them, and where. Same applies for us.

And we also have the choice of NOT seeing you or your friend anymore. Simple.

Now, by you posting to my thread, and your proximity, and who you are referring to that you hold in the highest regard, it doesn't take a brain surgeon to realize who we're talking about.

I'll admit. She's a class act alright. Just thought more of her, is all. That's my fault.

But like I told her, which I'm sure you're privy to, assuming you were there in the bar when she and I talked briefly, I'm glad I got there before he did.