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NewGuy69 14991 reads
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about going to a provider for the first time? I have never been with a shemale (or a man for that matter) and am pretty consumed with the idea of it. I lurk quite a bit on this board and am always checking out providers, videos, pictures, etc. I just have not had the courage to do it and am not sure if I ever will.

If there are any providers in the NY area (I have gone through many reviews, but you can never be too sure) who have an interest in turning out a clean cut and decent looking first timer in his early thirties let me know. I guess I am a big coward and will need to have my hand held through this if I am ever going to go through with it.

kyliesd11690 reads

HI new guy!! Use TER and when you call a few providers that you fancy.......really listen to what they are saying to you. So many don't want to deal with first timers and if I were you,find one that is patient on the phone with you and sounds like she has a good attitude.Wish I was in NY I'd help you out....... Don't freak out, just take your time Oh! and maybe find a girl that is just visiting NY. Visiting girls with good reviews might be a good choice for you? Good luck!

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PiquedinSoCal10449 reads

Newguy69,

Like you, I too have been consumed by the world of transgendered women for a few years now, and also share some of your palpatations about a hook up with a real girl and committing rookie gaffes in front of her my first time. The biggest worry I have is being "exploited", or shortchanged, on that first time being that she'll know I won't know what to expect. I've never been with any escort of any type. I guess it's all relative, huh ?

The questions I have for the veterans in here is what exactly is "GFE" ? I know it's the acronym for "girlfriend experience", but what exactly is the aforementioned ?
Also: Many escorts charge by the hour, and yet many of the reviews I've read here and at SER denote brevity, as if the tryst lasted 20 minutes. Are most escorts that good at structuring a client's hour to peak at just the right time, and does a client have a right to demand the whole hour if he paid for an hour ? Just what is the protocol here ? Thanks in advance. :)

I have a birthday coming up, and I can't think of a more memorable way to celebrate it than to finally hook up with a real woman from the transgendered community. :)

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wantats10535 reads

I remember when I was at that place with all the fears and anxieties that uncertainty brings. I have to admit that I miss the thrill of being a newbie. So here is my part in making your first time memorable.
Most providers are not watching the clock they are watching you. Once you pop that's it, whether that takes an hour or two minutes. Wham, bam, thank you maam. If you read the reviews you can find the ones that will treat you like a girl friend would. A girl friend will dfk, bbbj, and most importantly, multiple pops.
Sorry I don't have any suggestions for the New York readers but for SoCal I would recommend India for the veterans as well as the first timer. She enjoys her work and will be patient with the newbie.

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PiquedinSoCal10468 reads

Thank you for the 411, Wantats.

Are you suggesting that once the novelty ("thrill") wears out that it isn't as much fun anymore ? I was hoping that my first time would open a new window into a beautiful new sensual world that would make me only beg for more. I hope my first experience is a memorable one. :)

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wantats10570 reads

Not to say it isn't fun anymore but like any other good thing you develop a tolerance to the stimulation. Remembering the first time my heart was pounding from the fear of getting busted as well as the uncertainty of the provider. Now I know the LE checks to ensure I don't get busted and I have been with many providers and with the help of TER the uncertainty of the encounter has diminished. I still have a great time but it is never as thrilling as my first time. Good luck to you and your first.

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JWick12666 reads

Go see Venus

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tyrek8811257 reads

Hi,
I certainly understand your trepidations. It has been almost ten years since my first experience and I was also in my early 30's.
I was very very nervous and did not know what to expect.
Luckily, I found someone who was very nice who was understanding and made it a great experience.  I later saw her several more times several years later.
Best I can say is use this site as best as possible. Don't be afraid to send a few PM to the people who made the reviews. Speak to her over the phone and if you then feel comfortable, go from there.
Good luck guys.

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