Screening is what the provider does to make sure you are not the police, a rapist, robber, a guy that doesn't respect her boundaries, etc. She wants to know she will be safe having you at her in call or being at your out call location. There are verification (screening) services that do charge a membership fee. They screen you and vouch for you with the provider. Even then some providers want more information from you to be satisfied you are an OK guy to see.
Whether you join a service or not you will need to see provider's that are friendly to new guys. Some providers won't see anyone that doesn't have references from other providers. The ones that will see new guys want personal information like your real name, employment information, and phone number. They want to be able to check for themselves you are who you say you are. That you do have a job that isn't Law Enforcement looking to arrest them. You may decide that you don't want to be screened. There are providers that don't screen but that isn't safe. It's quite possible the provider that doesn't screen is a law enforcement officer looking to arrest you. She could be a robber that will take your money and run. She may have a pimp or boy friend that will do the robbing. There is no secret buzz word to making an appointment. If you have researched well and found a provider that has an ad or web site that gives you the information you need that's a start. Her price should be on her web site, her ad, and in her profile here on TER. Look for her here on TER. Find her reviews. See that she has many reviews. See that her reviewers have written many reviews. Read the details to see that she provides excellent service and what you want her to provide for you. Read her profile. You will need VIP membership here to have access to this information. $30 a month for VIP. Very inexpensive considering you will be spending $200 - $400 or more on the time you spend with this provider. (You can cancel the membership at the end of the month before it renews if you must.) During that month you can do a lot of research. When you decide to make contact use the method her site or ad instructs you to use. Don't ask questions that she has answered on her site or in the ad. Summary: Don't see ladies that don't screen. Don't see ladies that don't have the amount stated in her information. Don't see ladies that don't have reviews. Make sure the reviews are good ones. Don't believe the ad that says "Well reviewed", check the reviews for yourself. Where to find more information.Look in the Self-Help Center. That link is on the upper right of the discussion board under the red and white life preserver. It's also at the bottom of the Quick Links list on the My TER page.(See My TER tab above.) Read everything in the Self-Help Center. There is a wealth of information there. Check the link titled "The Newbie Primer" also read the Message Board Policies/Discussion Board Guidelines. That link is next to the Self-Help Center link upper right of the boards. edited for grammar
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Isn't screening some service you pay for I am thinking this is a one time thing so I really don't want to buy anything like that?
My second question is is there some code buzz word to use when you are asking for an appointment? I obviously don't want to talk about money but how do I figure out the price? Some ladies I was looking at don't advertise a price?
Screening is what the provider does to make sure you are not the police, a rapist, robber, a guy that doesn't respect her boundaries, etc. She wants to know she will be safe having you at her in call or being at your out call location. There are verification (screening) services that do charge a membership fee. They screen you and vouch for you with the provider. Even then some providers want more information from you to be satisfied you are an OK guy to see.
Whether you join a service or not you will need to see provider's that are friendly to new guys. Some providers won't see anyone that doesn't have references from other providers. The ones that will see new guys want personal information like your real name, employment information, and phone number. They want to be able to check for themselves you are who you say you are. That you do have a job that isn't Law Enforcement looking to arrest them.
You may decide that you don't want to be screened. There are providers that don't screen but that isn't safe. It's quite possible the provider that doesn't screen is a law enforcement officer looking to arrest you. She could be a robber that will take your money and run. She may have a pimp or boy friend that will do the robbing.
There is no secret buzz word to making an appointment. If you have researched well and found a provider that has an ad or web site that gives you the information you need that's a start. Her price should be on her web site, her ad, and in her profile here on TER. Look for her here on TER. Find her reviews. See that she has many reviews. See that her reviewers have written many reviews. Read the details to see that she provides excellent service and what you want her to provide for you. Read her profile. You will need VIP membership here to have access to this information. $30 a month for VIP. Very inexpensive considering you will be spending $200 - $400 or more on the time you spend with this provider. (You can cancel the membership at the end of the month before it renews if you must.) During that month you can do a lot of research. When you decide to make contact use the method her site or ad instructs you to use. Don't ask questions that she has answered on her site or in the ad.
Summary: Don't see ladies that don't screen. Don't see ladies that don't have the amount stated in her information. Don't see ladies that don't have reviews. Make sure the reviews are good ones. Don't believe the ad that says "Well reviewed", check the reviews for yourself.
Where to find more information.
Look in the Self-Help Center. That link is on the upper right of the discussion board under the red and white life preserver. It's also at the bottom of the Quick Links list on the My TER page.(See My TER tab above.) Read everything in the Self-Help Center. There is a wealth of information there. Check the link titled "The Newbie Primer" also read the Message Board Policies/Discussion Board Guidelines. That link is next to the Self-Help Center link upper right of the boards.
edited for grammar
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