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Time to crown our newest NCNS Queen - Heaven Elise/Julia
oleoneeye 152 Reviews 2945 reads
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I had seen her ad post a few days ago and since I needed something mid-morning I gave her a call.  She answered and we agreed on a specific time that same morning.  She sounded delightful and I was eagerly looking forward to it based on her great reviews.  She said she would text me the address as soon as she got off the phone.  I had called about 90 minutes prior to the appointed time and after about an hour had gone by there still was no text with the address as she had promised.   I tried calling her several times over a span of about an hour and just go voice mail but the box was full so I couldn't leave a message.  I also texted her (since she was going to text me).  The appointed time came and went and I gave up.  She may be smoking hot but its just not worth all the hassle with so many other excellent options available.  

Her recent TER ad speaking of morning availability:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=2623&boardID=82&page=1#2623

Posted By: oleoneeye
I had seen her ad post a few days ago and since I needed something mid-morning I gave her a call.  She answered and we agreed on a specific time that same morning.  She sounded delightful and I was eagerly looking forward to it based on her great reviews.  She said she would text me the address as soon as she got off the phone.  I had called about 90 minutes prior to the appointed time and after about an hour had gone by there still was no text with the address as she had promised.   I tried calling her several times over a span of about an hour and just go voice mail but the box was full so I couldn't leave a message.  I also texted her (since she was going to text me).  The appointed time came and went and I gave up.  She may be smoking hot but its just not worth all the hassle with so many other excellent options available.  

Her recent TER ad speaking of morning availability:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=2623&boardID=82&page=1#2623

This particular situation but if you'd like to call me, I'm sure we can work something out. I'm moving here so this week I've been spending most of my time with family, and getting stuff situated for the big move. I haven't been getting an Incall everyday.

I understand you're frustration but to tell a whole forum of people who do not know me to not see me is not fair or right at all. If you'd like to resolve this, give me a call.

-- Modified on 3/24/2012 8:56:13 AM

One-Man-Gang1317 reads

Now there are two hobbyists speaking up about your NCNS's.
You would have been better off apologizing to both of them as opposed to saying you don't remember and making a bunch of excuses.

Hopefully you will get your act together and make it up to both or all of them, and give them something good to say about you.

Well, I am only speaking for myself. Others can judge for themselves.  You may not recall the circumstances two days later but how difficult is it to remember an appt within 2 hours and to send a text as you said you would. And that was not even my idea.  I tried calling you several times, even the next day.  It might be helpful to clean out your voice mail frequently.  

For me, nothing to resolve. Thanks for the offer.

At this point you have multiple complaints of NCNS from well established reviewers.  I'd say this is your problem to fix.

HobbyCity1380 reads

I will admit you do come up with some fairly creative excuses but jerking guys around and your PR style does not work here in MN.

Also I believe there are enough cell phone records that might help you "recall" this particular situation.

Do you really expect guys to call you back after you have just stood them up? You might be living in fantasy land but most of us guys are not.

Its a shame you dont know how to run your business. You have all the tools to be good at it. Most men here will not put up with your drama,as there are many other fish in the sea. So my advice to you is to try to clean up your record. You call the guys you NCNS and work out a solution.ITs up to you not them. Think about it

helper_helping2052 reads

NO!  Not that the OP was NCNS! Oleoneeye posted on here and named the girl/lady and didn't leave us guessing who????   This is the only way us hobbyists will stop this ....... NAMES to NCNS

Sorry to hear that happened to you, she probably has lost a few gentlemen callers cuz of this.    Her name is off my list.....

Play safe.

Posted By: oleoneeye
I had seen her ad post a few days ago and since I needed something mid-morning I gave her a call.  She answered and we agreed on a specific time that same morning.  She sounded delightful and I was eagerly looking forward to it based on her great reviews.  She said she would text me the address as soon as she got off the phone.  I had called about 90 minutes prior to the appointed time and after about an hour had gone by there still was no text with the address as she had promised.   I tried calling her several times over a span of about an hour and just go voice mail but the box was full so I couldn't leave a message.  I also texted her (since she was going to text me).  The appointed time came and went and I gave up.  She may be smoking hot but its just not worth all the hassle with so many other excellent options available.  

Her recent TER ad speaking of morning availability:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=2623&boardID=82&page=1#2623



as I have never been cancelled in about 90 new-date-trips in the past 5 years, without a reason and often with an alternative arranged by the original date, if I chose to find out about a new girl. That system was great....but I am obviously not going to Heaven any time soon.....neither Heaven!!








Posted By: oleoneeye
I had seen her ad post a few days ago and since I needed something mid-morning I gave her a call.  She answered and we agreed on a specific time that same morning.  She sounded delightful and I was eagerly looking forward to it based on her great reviews.  She said she would text me the address as soon as she got off the phone.  I had called about 90 minutes prior to the appointed time and after about an hour had gone by there still was no text with the address as she had promised.   I tried calling her several times over a span of about an hour and just go voice mail but the box was full so I couldn't leave a message.  I also texted her (since she was going to text me).  The appointed time came and went and I gave up.  She may be smoking hot but its just not worth all the hassle with so many other excellent options available.  

Her recent TER ad speaking of morning availability:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=2623&boardID=82&page=1#2623

I had been previously been tempted to see her.  But after the repeted thoughtless NCNS behavior combined with the lame lie/excuse response here, she is off my list for good.

If you understood or read the caliber of my sessions, you would understand why I take breaks often. :) I apologize to anyone I have cancelled on. I think I was misinterpreted when I said "it's not fair", I think it's not fair the title that was given "no show queen" I don't feel that relates to me or is a fair title. I offer great service, and like most good things they come to those that wait. I don't see too many people in a day, I'm not trying to hurt anyone. I'm not robbing anyone. I may have cancelled on a few people and robbed them of their fun for that day with me, but if you call me and we can resolve it like two adults instead of on here, I'd be happy to arrange a discounted rate. I don't usually do that, but to make up for any phone costs you had to endure calling me and being cancelled on I'm willing to provide that. I'm a sweet person and not trying to make up accuses. I'm just trying to be as discreet as possible about my interactions with others and I just don't feel this is the proper place to discuss appointments or booking.

If this were an isolated instance and only related to me, I would not have started this thread.  I have had lots of NCNS instances over the years and I understand that shit happens sometimes, but when its obviously just being inconsiderate that's different.  NCNS means NO CALL and NO SHOW.  Its not the same as a cancellation.   Although it would suck, cancellations are acceptable as long as they don't become a habit.  But this was NOT a cancellation in my case.  When you agree to an appt and then simply leave a guy hanging without any communications, thats just plain rude.  So if my post was rude to you, I guess we are even.  I will be damned if I am going to apologize for your bad behavior.

I wish you well and hope you get your act together.  I am sure that you are a nice person and judging from your reviews, this will be my loss.

Heaven still doesn't get it.  This guy (and apparently others) waited and waited, but she didn't have the courtesy to call and cancel.   There are VERY few acceptable excuses for NCNS.  It has nothing to do with the caliber of your sessions or whether you provide great service.  And yes, you did rob someone --  you robbed this guy of his time and likely robbed him of an opportunity with another provider.  For some of us these opportunities to enjoy the hobby are infrequent, so a NCNS isn't merely a minor inconvenience.

These reviews are smoking so maybe its just a scheduling issue, part of the growing up process.

The virus of NCNS in our "hobbying" can be very, very frustrating. Acquiring great reviews is not just about performance. The beauty of this site is this thread providing us with this sort of info. I thank you all for your honesty in this as I too have had her on my radar. I did email her a few weeks ago and got no reply whatsoever. I still may try and see her in the future if she is receptive to such. This thread has encouraged me to be more involved. I have been a long time paying member but quietly in the background. Reading a lot about NCNS lately has changed my mind as it has happened plenty to me as well as all of us. Let's never respectfully stop looking out for each. Thanks guys.

bfw1293 reads

Sometimes we are judged by our good intentions and sometimes we are judged by our last, worst act.

I got burned by Heaven twice. The first time I drove across town in rush hour trafic and got to the meeting place and then nothing. This was all done through text and email. She finally says she is running late and then nothing for 6 more hours. By then I was home. After a week I had cooled off a little and thought her reviews are so good and I am a glutin for punishment so I emailed her again. She said 10AM. I planned my day around it and then nothing until mid afternoon and she says what about 6PM. Stupid me, sure I'll go. She said the general area so again I drove across town and she texed me she was running late and then nothing until the next day. Are you F***ing kidding! Then I decided to tell her what I was thinkin of her and said she could appologize over the phon but no more email or texting crap.

She did actually email me and apoligized sort of and said she was going to call right then but that has been several days.

Again WHY? WHY? WHY? WHY?


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