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Re:First time Greek appointment. Any advice?
Emma Bond See my TER Reviews 3946 reads
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Either D, M or spoonstyle work well.  I think D is probably the favourite of a lot of men because the visuals are 'interesting' ;)   Until you know your partner well, and you've had a bit of practice, I would leave any additional stimulation up to her.  It's simply easier for you to keep you balance if you've got both hands free.

It's better if you apply the lube.  Be careful not to overdo it.  I find Astroglide is the best (but yes, I know the taste is disgusting, but this is anal sex we're talking about here boys and girls..).  I don't find it's such a great idea to put it all over the man's penis.  It makes it to slippery and difficult to guide.  Best to apply it to your gloved and/or super clean and trimmed fingers and slowly work the lube into her anus.  Once you can thrust (gently!) using two fingers it's usually OK to proceed.

The intital entry is usually easy.  She pushes out while you push in - this allows the anal sphincter to relax and lets you past the muscular ring just inside the entrance.  Once in, pause for around 30 seconds while she relaxes around you and then - depending on her wishes - it's time to go for it.

Have fun!

Tomorrow I have an appointment with a new to NYC greek provider.  She's not reviewed here (or I'd post a link to her site), but she comes highly recommended by another provider who has done doubles with her.  Anyway, as you can tell from the subject, this will be my first greek experience.  

What positions work well for greek?  Doggie style, obviously.  How is mish?  CG?  Recipients, what to you prefer?

How about other simultaneous stimulation.  When going at it greek do guys typically try to apply vaginal or clitoral stimulation as well (either by hand or vibrator) or do we just pound away (as it were) and let the girl do any additional stimulation that she might like.

I am sure she'll guide me, but I thought I'd ask some general questions.

Lex Luethor3260 reads

I'm glad to see you're at 20 reviews and haven't tried it yet -- I'm only at 6, but was starting to feel like the only chap here who hadn't tried it. It's not on the menu at home...but then again, neither is "traditional" sex. :S

Wow.  I didn't realize I was at 20.  I stopped counting at 10 and stopped reviewing at 20.  I originally did the reviews to get TER for free, but never bothered to cancel my pay account, so I kind of stopped reviewing.  Most of the girls I see have plenty of reviews anyway.  I'll generally only post a review now if the session is spectacular or horrible or if the girl asks me to (it will still be an honest review).

No Greek yet is not for lack of desire.  I can tell you.  I managed to fall in with 3 ATF's that I love seeing, but none does Greek.  I only see independents, and that rules out a bunch of other Greek providers.  My finances are limited, and I the providers pleasure (or apparent pleasute) is important to me.  So, I've been kind of waiting for an affordable provider who like greek enough to not charge extra for it.

I thought I found one, but then she took it off the menu before I got the chance to see her.

But one of those ATF's does doubles with a girl who enjoys it and just moved to NYC.  Hallelujah.  Here I come.

Now wouldn't it be funny if I ended up hating it?  


what works good with her :) Only she would know how her body would react to certain  administrations. I hope it goes great for you :)

Mel
http://www.voluptuousblackbeauty.com/

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I was always going to go with what she enjoyed, but thought it might be helpful (and interesting) to hear from others about what they like first.

Freak For Greek4125 reads

Most providers only offer it doggie.  If you can get a provider to do it RCG, it's a sight to behold. Next favorite would be Mish. Recommendations in NYC for Greek include Maxine (lowest priced), Chrissy from BDJ when she's in town, Gina Robbins when she' in town, Sissy at BDJ also an excellent choice if you're a guy that likes Big Tits AND Greek. Gemini Star is coming to town in 2 weeks and she'll take a pounding of her shitter and talk dirty to you. Most providers put enough lube on your cock and their asses that you could do an oil change for your SUV. Last recommendation is the Anal Queen Jolie. Jolie lives in Atlanta, but comes to NYC regularly. She'll take your cock and a number of objects up her shit box. I think this answers your question.

My problem was never in finding girls that did greek.  It was in finding independent, affordable girls that I am attracted to, that did greek.  :-)

I do love TER's search feature.  :-)

The High, Soft Lisp2923 reads

Just take it slow. No need to be like John Wayne and charge in like the 7th Cavalry. Work up to it slowly, get her to relax, maybe start with a finger. Unless she is a mute, I'm sure she will guide you. Just talk to her. Hey, a novel concept, communication. Have fun!!

Either D, M or spoonstyle work well.  I think D is probably the favourite of a lot of men because the visuals are 'interesting' ;)   Until you know your partner well, and you've had a bit of practice, I would leave any additional stimulation up to her.  It's simply easier for you to keep you balance if you've got both hands free.

It's better if you apply the lube.  Be careful not to overdo it.  I find Astroglide is the best (but yes, I know the taste is disgusting, but this is anal sex we're talking about here boys and girls..).  I don't find it's such a great idea to put it all over the man's penis.  It makes it to slippery and difficult to guide.  Best to apply it to your gloved and/or super clean and trimmed fingers and slowly work the lube into her anus.  Once you can thrust (gently!) using two fingers it's usually OK to proceed.

The intital entry is usually easy.  She pushes out while you push in - this allows the anal sphincter to relax and lets you past the muscular ring just inside the entrance.  Once in, pause for around 30 seconds while she relaxes around you and then - depending on her wishes - it's time to go for it.

Have fun!

tell me, do you have a stack of Ikea book case assembly instructions stashed under you bed?

Lex Luethor4052 reads

...and once again, I am without a worthy retort.

No food for a few weeks will do it.

She seems worth it.

The best advice I can think of is communication, as was stated above. I've found that trying to stick anything in a woman's ass without her prior knowledge AND conscent will ruin the night, to say the least.

Some other things to maybe consider:

Start off playing with some toys first. Butt plugs or a finger will be a cool place to start. It allows for muscles to relax and loosen up gradually. Work up in size.

Let her lead, at least at first. CG always seemed to be a good position to start in if she wants to, it allows for her control over depth and speed and all that kinda stuff until everything and everybody are relaxed and on the same page.

It's tight in there. Don't just attempt penetration as you normally may do vaginally.

There used to be a product named Anal Eaze (or somethin like that anyway) that added a numbing affect also. Don't know it's still around, but I would imagine there's something like it available.

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Conjugal Coddger3051 reads

It is just KY jelly with lidocane in it.

Ass_Pumpman2356 reads

Use regular lubricate and great care and patience. You want every nerve ending in the lady's anus to pick up sensation from the penis at work there. The most important wthings to remember are, communication, patience, and self control.

Ass_Pumpman2614 reads

Go slow and ask her how she wants it before you start. You have to loosen a tight muscle to get things going, this is where pain can come in if you are not patient and careful. Clitoral stimulation is best, either with her doing it herself or you using a vibrator carefully and skillfully. By Saturday morning, you will never be the same and will, from that day on, hunger for Greek like a hungry dog.

SweetTina4532 reads

My first time with greek was on my back. It was much easier to go into me that way. Doggie, in my opinion, is best for the more experienced greeker. lol. Use lube of course and a finger or two before you actually do the deed might help. For me we had been having FS before so I was excited and ready for just about anything then he just took it out one hole and slid it in the other. He was already lubed and slippery from me so there was no need for him to stop and add any extra lubrication. go at it slow at first and ask her how it feels. Go solely on what she says. It's a great feeling for me. Also I have said this 100 times and I will say it 100 more: Avoid those condoms with the bumps on it if you do greek. Please! :(

Lex Luethor4195 reads

...I guess I'm off on another quest.

I'll add a new thread talking about my experience.  Probably won't mention who she is, though, since she doesn't have any reviews.  But if she lets me, I will post one.

This is amazing.  After a year and a half of hobbying (and probably about 50 sessions) I am nervous like it's my first time.  LOL  

And to top it off, she usually only offers outcall.  I asked about incall, and she said outcall only, but when she spoke to my reference (a friend of hers) the reference put in such a good word for me that she decided to get a hotel room for the incall.

No pressure there.  :-)

I had a wild session with Long Island Ebony in NY today.  She is fairly new, UTR and says she is willing to try Greek.  She brought anal ease (more details about all of this in my review - assuming it was not rejected or deemed inconsistent).

She is not really experienced in Greek, and as for me, I prefer to be guided to Greece when doing it with someone the first time.  I also think there needs to be alot of trust between the provider and the client (IMHO).  In the end Ebony could not tolerate a trip, so the hunt continues.

I had a wild session with Long Island Ebony in NY today.  She is fairly new, UTR and says she is willing to try Greek.  She brought anal ease (more details about all of this in my review - assuming it was not rejected or deemed inconsistent).

She is not really experienced in Greek, and as for me, I prefer to be guided to Greece when doing it with someone the first time.  I also think there needs to be alot of trust between the provider and the client (IMHO).  In the end Ebony could not tolerate a trip, so the hunt continues.

the lady likes, follow her directions and take it easy to start.  She'll let you know how hard or slow she wants it.  If she happens to be amenable to all positions and speeds, I have found Greek Mish to be unbeatable.

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