HI Guys! This is first time trying out hobbying, I'd currently like to book someone from a local escort service in FL but I have no references. At the moment I pretty much run a repair shop out of my house for income. What's the best way to handle the situation?
Start by reading the Self Help/Newbie Manual that is linked on this board. Look for the red and white life preserver.
As for references, that is probably the most brought up subject on this board. Do a search on references and you'll find a lot of reading. The short answer is to find providers who will see a first timer without references, or join one of the screen services out there like Datecheck or Room Service.
Best of luck in the hobby and welcome to TER.
Secondly, join one or more of the verification sites. Preferred411 lets providers indicate if they are newbie friendly. Look for those ladies both their and here. Above all, do your research!!!! Check phone number, pictures, reviews both here and on other review sites, which I cannot name due to TER's rules.
You may have to give up some personal information, prob more than you want, until you can get some ladies to reference you.
Swim
can't provide meaningful employment verification... Tell the truth. Some gals will be willing to work with you to verify enough information to be comfortable meeting you.
The Newbie can be a mark for scammers: you pay cash, in person. Left on a table or dresser. No discussion or watching it.
Deposits are rarely given & only for special dates like flying a provider in or overnight where she is blocking off a large time for you. (We had a client who paid a deposit a few days ago... posted here after she failed to show up. Why? She already had the money & did nothing for it!)
Be clean. Be discreet. Be on time... better still be slightly early but don't sit outside her hotel (very conspicuous). Withdraw to the corner coffee shop & time to return at the exact time. If you try to first arrive exactly at the correct time, will be the day the traffic is bad or you get a flat tire.
I recommend a free email not linked to your regular account. Also a hobby phone. Do not access adult sites with others around.
Read all the material suggested... it costs you only the time & is free. Once you are ready to select a provider... remember it's just a temporary GF, not match . com It might even be best if you don't try for your 'perfect girl' on the first try. Get over your newbie nerves first.
Best Wishes
H
There are other ways of screening, perhaps if you join P411 or Date-Check they may be able to help.
Nobody had references when they started doing this..it takes a bit of time so be patient...