How do you feel about someone asking you something during sex. Yes you may think your penis is magical but it's such a turnoff for me. Don't ask me "Do you love me?", "Is this my pussy" "Can we hang out for free" or "we meeting next Sunday?" knee deep in the middle of some banging groove making. I might lie and appease you or I might just tell you the truth. It's not about the penis no matter how King Kong or motion in the ocean good you are, you just killed the mood. Is this something guys do in order to last longer or something? I just don't understand
Hi K.biz: that is an excellent question. For my part I asked the provider to guide me on DATY because I want to improve and satisfy my wife better. I know every woman is different. But I thought a provider who is comfortable with her body would be helpful. My wife really does not respond well to that and my suspicion was or is that I am not good at it. So in my case it's less about ego and more about being a better lover.
O ok I can see that. Thinking about it, when a guy asks if the tongue or dick is good...isnt so much of a turnoff. I can happily answer those type questions. I think the hangup for me is off topic subject matter. Which is why I concluded maybe they don't want to bust so quick and it's more of a distraction type thing ...idk maybe I'm digging myself in a hole here. Just how I feel.
To me talking during sex is hot, I see nothing wrong with asking a woman "who's pussy is this?". It actually makes me cum faster, not that I'm a marathon man as it is but dirty talk, sex faces and ear sucking make me bust quicker. Now the other statements that you mentioned are off limits as I don't want to blur the lines, I know it's not love and I am certainly not going to initiate off the clock requests. Hobbying is a fantasy for me, and I assume other hobbyist like to get their rocks off similarly otherwise why hobby in the first place?
I agree dirty talk is nice, but the point I was trying to make was off topic statements throw the whole mood. Imagine trying to get off and your provider just starts trying to discuss the donation or what time you all will meet... am I crazy? The other statements I mentioned are the ones in my experience ,I hear. It gets even further off topic....I am simply wondering why is that guys find the need to do this. Its like deflating a balloon. I'll stick with my first theory I think its to avoid cumming so quickly.
Some of these guys just aren’t very smooth, and the fact that they’ve got their dick inside you doesn’t make that awkwardness magically disappear.