That's the stuff for a different post.  It's harder and more expensive than getting a civilian SB, but not too much. And just like connecting with all POT's on Seeking, there are no guarantees and there is a similar amount of false starts, wasted cycles, and unrealistic expectations.  But it can be done. In my 10+ year history of sugaring,  

 
I think I have successfully had multiple BCD's with a total of 5 porn starts, all for real, multiple-hour or even multiple-day extended sugar dates and for maybe half or less than what a typical Porn Star escort charges for a single hour.  Two of them are still in my rotation, though scheduling is irregular due to their work/travel schedules.  

 
I may have documented my approach in previous posts... let me know if you can't find anything.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Did you at least report the profile to SA?

Yeah, "I didn't get the transfer".  I put up a scam review here for a escort that pulled that on me.

I had the same thing happen, except she claimed she was in my area for a photo shoot.  She even offered to come to my place for a bcd meeting.  When she asked for significant money up front, I bailed.  I have to admit I thought about it for awhile before declining.  

Papa Sweet, fucking bummer this happened.  

 
I guess I can throw out some basic guidelines for Sugaring with POT Porn Stars:

 
1. Porn Stars do travel for work and escorting, but they generally do not post Seeking profiles when doing so. They tend to post SA profiles in their local area in the hopes of establishing a long-term arrangement.  

 
2. If she is a UTR or even not UTR Porn Star escort, she will almost always post her travel schedule for one or more reasons like scheduled appearances at industry events (ex: EXXXOTICA), or on her agency / escort website, and sometimes it's on her Twitter (Now X) or IG.  So try to verify if she's really coming to your location.  

 
3. My strategy is to always try to establish some off-site communication with her first, or at least in parallel to your SA messages. Use DMs in social media only to establish contact, not to negotiate any terms or meeting details unless she initiates. Once you have done that, if possible, meet her at the industry event; just say "Hi I'm Papa Sweet, really enjoyed chatting with you on ____" If she acknowledges, all good.  EX: I met 3 of my PS SB's at AVN in Las Vegas. I had already connected with each of them before the show.  

 
4. Sugar Rule #1 still applies: Never send money in advance. The only possible exception might be if she has an established escort agency that requires a deposit. But then you are probably going to pay standard escort rates.  

 
4a. Booking her 1st as an escort may be a viable path. If during/after the session you think she's chill and she appears to think you are chill, you can mention that you do sugar dating and see how she reacts. Then take your lead from there and see how it goes.  This is a low-percentage play, but all attempts to sugar date a PS are low-percentage plays.  

 
5. To complete Point #1 above, Porn Stars do post profiles on Seeking either to attract new escort bookings or as a legit attempt to find a local SD. But they generally call out that they are an adult star, and/or post pics from an industry event (like the Red Carpet walk at AVN) along with other candid pics.  

 
The point is to make sure you listen to your Spidey Senses. It's so easy to ignore your better instincts, even if you are an experienced SD.  

TLDR: What I'm laying out with the notes above is a simple strategy:

 
If you want to date porn stars, put yourself where the Porn Stars hang out. Then engage like you would any civilian woman, chat her up, have a good/wry/witty sense of humor and talk about anything OTHER than porn and her work. Porn Stars see porn-fan-boys all the time.  It's the porn equivalent of the "friend-zone."  Be that interesting guy who is not obsessed with porn, but admires the woman as an admirable woman.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat