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When she goes full blown escort
netnoy 27 Reviews 488 reads
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Was seeing an SB regularly BCD.  She ghosts me all of a sudden .  I figured she went exclusive with someone else.  Even though she said she wasn't seeing anyone else, as if that's always the truth.  Her profile on SA disappeared too.  So I texted her farewell and good luck.

Saw her ad up on Tryst today.  That raises an eyebrow.  Her rates are lower than what I was giving her.  Hmm, tried texting her, no reply so far.

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One girl, after we'd been sugar dating a while,  told me very frankly that she would not see me any more and was going to pursue more lucrative opportunities.  I found her on Tryst charging twice what I'd been gifting her.  Another girl I'm still in contact with was a regular of mine several years ago.  She travels quite a bit, and unabashedly proclaims she loves being a ho!  She has civvy BFs, SDs, Tryst clients, etc.  She's glad to still see me from time to time, but has raised her rate to me from where we started.   My point is, all the girls I've known who made the transition to full blown escort did so in order to make more money.  So it's very odd that your SB is actually charging less per date than what you had been giving her.  Maybe she simply prefers the variety of having a higher volume of clients and less connection with each of them.

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Posted By: sweetman
...So it's very odd that your SB is actually charging less per date than what you had been giving her.  Maybe she simply prefers the variety of having a higher volume of clients and less connection with each of them.
Netnoy,  
I feel your pain.   As we've observed so many times, all arrangements eventually end.  The most difficult endings for us are those that blindside the SD, of course.  We naturally try to analyze what we "did wrong" when the reason may be (mostly) unrelated to anything we did or did not say or do.  SB's are fully realized people, with their own lives, hopes, dreams, aspirations and of course fears.  So yes, reflect on the relationship, noting what worked well and where you may want to improve for the next arrangement. But don't get too hung up on it.  She's doing what she feels is right for her, and we must admit that what she sees as "best for her" may not include us.  

 
Time to take a brief break and then dive headfirst back into the Bowl.  New POT's are signing up every day!  

 
Papa Sweet,  
About your "odd" observation: you may not be looking at the same math as she is.  Generally, sugar allowance is paid per date and those dates can last several hours, or more.  If she's gone full mercenary sex worker (nothing wrong with that!) she may see that booking with an hourly rate (even one less than her PPM allowance) may actually increase her net revenue as she can possibly see more clients per day or week, or she may have some other revenue- (or more generically "value-") producing activity to allocate the extra time towards.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

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netnoy5 reads

Ghosting is the only part that bugged me.  She's super dizzy which would have annoyed me enough to cut it off at some point anyway.  Her hourly rate is less than what I paid her but we spent a few hours together.  So she can theoretically make more in a day.  

The real issue I see. And this is from getting to know her.  She's a flake.  She really was better off finding a SD to pay her rent.  

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lester_prairie4 reads

There could be lots of reasons, both good and bad. One "good" one could be that she came to value your image of her and doesn't want you to think of her as a common ore.
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I think she's smart starting out at a lower price point.

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Adonis485 reads

I'm finding these relationships can go south at any point along the process. From initial reach out on the site to suddenly ending after a lengthy run. There's simply no way of knowing whether it was something you said or did or didn't do. There's just too many variables. We've all had a lot of disappointment when things we'd hoped would work out don't and there seems to be no explanation or reason for it. It's natural to have regret and blame oneself. I don't think a week goes by I'm not disappointed by something in this dynamic. I am always wondering whether things are going to last or who will be the next one to ghost me. I am trying to see it as a learning experience. Learning how to not get too attached or have any expectations beyond today and stay in the moment. It's really all we have. I am grateful for this lifestyle it has given me pleasure and excitement and adventure beyond my wildest dreams and I know I've helped a few young ladies along their journey of life with both love and financial assistance.  

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