and she too busted up the room, caused about $500 worth of damage and proved to be by far the most BSC woman I have ever met. When I say BSC I mean multiple instances of involuntary commitments to the loony bin, and a virtual duffle bag of antipsychotic meds that she was "supposed" to take every day, but she may have been the best lay I have ever had in my life and I have fucked literally thousands of women
Come on don't be a wimp, What could possibly go wrong??? lol
Dealing with an odd situation. A few weeks ago, I made an appointment with a relatively young provider. Not many reviews. At the time of the booking she was hugely communicative. Moreso than I have ever seen. She was the one initiating all the discussion. I was going to meet her on a business trip.
Then as we got closer to the date, she started to express doubt about the meeting. I couldn’t figure out why. Then she went dark and bailed. I assumed that something I said made her nervous. But I can’t pinpoint anything. So I wrote her off, and have not communicated since.
Now she has reappeared and started a dialog again. I am at a safe distance, since we live in two different cities. It feels like she might be lonely, and just wants to chat sometimes. Ladies - any thoughts on what is going on?
I am reluctant to make another booking, after what happened the first time. She is hugely intriguing, but I am reluctant to try again.
Wouldn't it be a whole bunch easier to simply ask her?
As for your question about being lonely you might as well ask "is being a john lonely?" There are thousands, maybe even millions of hookers, some of them lonely, some of them with a plethora of friends and family.
Because you and others here are a source of infinite wisdom, on all things hobbying.
Yes, it is lonely and boring being a provider. The only contact they have with others is a bunch of horny guys shoving envelopes full of cash in their faces. Its enough to make them want to heave. A few ladies have figured out how to minimize all of that "lonely" time by taking some of that vile, wretched cash and going shopping, having a spa day, a weekend trip, or just buying dinner for their favorite customer (as a provider unexpectedly did for me this past weekend). So she may want to keep the lines of communication open with you because she has you pegged as one of those guys that's not going to try to push a bunch of filthy lucre on her. You just want to talk. My wisdom is not "infinite", but makes sense after reading your OP.
But it could be any of a number of things, including good old BSC.
Been around for about two years, but only 5 reviews.
what is BSC ?
petroleum-based. Too much of it CAN make her BSC.
Did you send her a "Dick Pic"?...Anyway, something went "chop,chop" along the way. Not sure what kinda conversation went on but she had second thoughts or maybe her puppy dies...who knows.
And by the way, just ask her "what's up", that's the best way to find out why she resurfaced.
When I am single, I am never lonely. I live a very active lifestyle.
When offering companionship, I'm never lonely, because I get to meet so many unique and wonderful people.
The only times I get lonely is during a committed relationship, in that horrible moment when the fella replaces the "perceived me" with the "real me" and becomes disillusioned and withdrawn. That moment is always the beginning of the end, and it stirs up very deep feelings of sadness and loneliness in me. So I avoid it like the plague that it is.
And now you know why I am the Lovely Solitaire - happiest when she is solitary and alone.
But never lonely 
"Loneliness is poverty of self...solitude is fullness of self." (Buddhist quotation)
Yep---that says it all!!
"Loneliness is poverty of self...solitude is fullness of self." (Buddhist quotation)
Solitaire - Laura Branigan http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-tKRhM8qlPA
"Loneliness is poverty of self...solitude is fullness of self." (Buddhist quotation)
Yep---that says it all!!
She sounds like she's still
figuring things out.
She's knows what she's supposed to do.
She lacks the confidence to stay on the path,
because she's OverThinking the whole scenario.
I dig this response. Sounds like she thinks you're a decent guy from what she gathers. It's a fucked up deal, but sometimes a person can read between the lines and appreciate what and why they're here. I say give her another chance. Especially if you find her appealing and intriguing. Weirder things have happened...
When they are in a relationship they are lonely? If I am dating someone I stay true to myself and I keep my life as is. Meaning I still do my thing and hang out with my friends. Relationships are supposed to be complimentary , not overshadowing or suffocating.
My former ATF told me it could get lonely on the road when she was touring the country. More than once she invited me to stay over (OTC) after our dinner date was over. Anyone who travels on business knows this feeling and just because you're intimate with a client, it isn't like they're company just stopping over to say hi and chat.
MfSD>>>>
Depends on the provider. I am always a little surprised when a provider talks about their husbands and families. They are obviously in full disclosure to those around them.
But more often, they have 2 sets of friends - social/family and then their professional friends. And never the twain shall me. They lead double lives. I can see how that would not only be stressful & complicated, it would also limited their ability to develop meaningful relationships. After all, the people in their life's know only half of what is going on. And issues would extend over both sides of their lives.
Lonely - maybe not. Feeling lonely - a much better chance
the worse for me is missing my pets when I stay out of town overnight more than 2 days. I don't think about them until the day is done. On my way home will stop to get them first if I boarded them. Poor babies grieve too, even though they know the drill. They always forget the part that I will come back to get them. It is horribly sad for me to leave them. I am never lonely at home, even when I am alone. I have learned to love my time with myself. And when I take it, it is not wasted time but actually allowing ideas to flow
The situation with your girl I am clueness
Madison
multitude of reasons
95% of my life is not in any way connected to my life beyond the veil. That has changed over time though for a plethora of reasons. When I was providing in the US and I was away from my family etc I had 2 very close friends (both providers - now retired who I am still in touch with). We trusted each other implicitly, met each other’s families (none of whom knew at the time) and had emergency plans god forbid anything happen to any of us. I hold these women very close to my heart (up there with family) and truly cherish the friendship we have endurered. Other friends in the US eventually found out what I did (I was outed) and as I disclosed in another post they hated the outing more than they hated what I did so they stayed (and remain) friends also. I think I was very lucky because I could have so easily become isolated
Being away from home - as we all know, this life doesn’t lend itself well to public acceptance so it’s eash to feel a need to hide or walk the path alone. I think it’s incredibly important to have interests away from this life to keep you balanced and feeling as though you belong to a commmnuty in some shape or form outside of this one...
These days, as I have said, such a small amount of my life is spent providing that it’s not an issue at all. I have a very full life that I thoroughly enjoy x
It can be a super lonely life... especially if you are independent as most providers are; we are all very busy and often travel a lot so it's hard to connect and meet up. And some providers don't like being friends with other providers because they see them as 'competition' (which is something I disagree with and I think is very unhealthy!)
However, in this situation it seems like she is being flaky or scared and is bowing out. From how little reviews she has and for how long she's been active, maybe it's something she only does when she's desperate for cash or in a particularly hard place... a very bad sign for having a positive experience. I would ask her honestly if something went wrong or if you made a bad step, but from how polite your above post is I highly doubt it. I would write it off as her being a little unprofessional, and I wouldn't count on being able to rely on an appointment with her.
xoxo
Olivia
It's hard to say. The biggest thing I've learned in this industry is that everyone is different and sees things in their own unique way. And that people are always changing, growing and adapting. How we feel about something one day might be different than how we feel the next. And certain people, places and situations influence our outlook and emotions. So I would say until you know more, try not to make any assumptions. I'm sure she wouldn't mind if you reached out and expressed interest. Who knows? Maybe your date will be incredible and maybe she'll flake. You'll never know until you try. xx
Maybe she does not, like her job
Maybe she has a pimp. Maybe she is a drug user who had mood swings. Maybe she is lonely. Maybe she is burnt out. Maybe you should ask her directly instead of asking a board.
What does it matter if your not planning on repeating? Put your cape on & go save her.