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Question for the ladies on verifying a friend
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I have a friend coming in town and we have hobbyied together in Costa Rica, Thailand and the Philippines.   He does not hobby in his home town and asked me if I could connect him with the girls I see.  I have several independents I see regularly, a few I have seen a handful of times as well as a couple agencies I work with occasionally.

My question is would it be inappropriate to ask if I could verify him on my accord so he could setup a meeting?  I have never seen this topic discussed.  He would be willing to provide personal verification info but does not have any references.

... if you're going to be the person he's seeing for p4p.

But I don't think that's the case, is it.  So that means the providers he wants to see need to verify him.

The fact that he's willing to give personal info for verification and that you will vouch for him with providers you see regularly will help, depending on how these providers do their screening.

-- Modified on 4/2/2018 4:56:27 PM

If you mean personally vouch for him, it would all depend on how well you knew the women you want to introduce him to.

 
I think you would have better luck with an agency (if you know the owner well) than an indy. Back when I lived in Atlanta I did exactly that and vouched for a guy I knew well from having mongered with him in other countries, but keep in mind all YOU can attest to (unless you fucked the guy yourself. lol) is the fact you are certain he is not LE. That should be enough for most agencies, (if you know them well), but will not be enough for many/most indies as you can't possibly answer the questions most of them will want answered, like "is he a gentleman?" "Is he rough?' etc.

The reality is, nobody knows how your ladies will respond.  
Of course, it depends how well you know the ladies.
Just over a month ago, a long time friend was going to Dallas. He asked me the same thing, except the lady I was going to suggest, was going out of town. I suggested a good friend of hers and he said that she'd be great.
I asked my lady if she would be ok with giving an ok on my say so. She said yes. But, I have had a 3 year regular relationship with this lady, when I visit Dallas.  

My friend filled out the lady's website form, gave her the ID she desired,  and noted that I was referring him and she should talk to my lady. A couple of emails back and forward and it was done. He had a great time and she said he was really cool.  

My point is, in my mind, asking is not a problem. Just be willing to be rejected, and be ok with it. Who knows.

... Let's hope he won't default and leave you with the collateral damage :(

That is very true. Unless, you've been in the same room, nobody knows how someone behaves in the sack.
If he's a gentleman outside, but a pig in the sack, the fault comes back to the reference.

Everyone was happy.  But these all were people I know extremely well.

but they were not shy to give other info as well.  The referrals did help to make the decision to see them :)    
Good question.

I have long time friends who I have made my friends, friends all by personally vouching for them.  If were friends meaning, I personally know you & have played well together, than yes I accept a personal vouch.  I had a purple heart Vet friend that introduced me to all his retired military friends, and I am always happy to make new friends.

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I would be fine with this, as long as you were a regular of mine that I had seen several times.  If I had only seen you once I would probably ask for additional information on this gent.  Safety first!!!!  

Xoxo
Scarlet

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