I am kind of new to this and part of the downside I have found is the difficulty in setting up an appointment.
I have found someone in my area that I am interested in for early Saturday evening.  How far in advance should I call her to make an appointment ?
If I called tonight she would probably think I was silly.  Should I call on Friday night, the night before ?
Just looking for suggestions.

They're all different.  If you find someone you're intrerested in and you're in the mood, call her.  Only then will you find out what the deal is.  Obviously, the longer the lead time the better your chances are.

hi mw11

my suggestion, just based on what has worked well for me in the past, is to research who you would like to see and then make an inquiry only first contact. usually I, and seems like most providers too, prefer this initial contact be done by email if available. this can be done at any time, even weeks in advance, especially when dealing with a touring lady, or if you are out of town on business and must plan your own schedule in advamce.

one could start this first contact by stating how you learned of this lady's services; from ad, review, website, etc. then say you are interested in meeting them in the near future, and at this time ask how they prefer to set up appointments. as stated before, each individual is different. if the infomation is not on their ad, or website then I will ask what their screening process is for a new client, preferences in setting up appointments via phone or email, and how far in advance to make these arrangements. you could also give an indication of when you would like to meet if you know an exact date. additionally if one has any special requests, now might be a good time to mention that as well.

if email is not possible then simply call. ALWAYS ASK her first if now is a good time to talk (or when would be more convenient) and if she could answer a couple of questions. make sure she knows this is a serious inquiry but only a first contact to collect information.  

follow up with a second contact, using the information you already have and make arrangements by whatever method she is most comfortable with. if possible, during these first couple of contacts try to develop a dialogue, just light converstaion, talk a litle weather. you can also tell her a little bit about yourself and your expectations of the date. make sure you then confirm time and place the day before or the moring of your appointment.

I guarantee that nothing bad can ever come from too much communication before your first encounter with someone new. the ladies I have met seem to like this attention to detail and we both are more relaxed when we do finally meet face to face, because the business matters were taken care of, so all thats left to do is enjoy one another.

hope this helps, good luck, and please play safe
best regards, mr.man
"give me ambiguity, or give me something else"
   

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it all depends on the situation. If the lady is local no need to contact her 2 weeks in advance, one week before is more than enough. Email is best for a first contact. If it does not work, call. Once the date is made, reconfirm the day before by phone.

This an off subject, but when setting a first meeting how long should one book?  I.e. 1/2 hr., 1hr, or more?

I like one hour visits for the first time; it's enough time to get to know one another a little and have one unrushed cup of coffee (or two cups if you are very energetic, LOL).

If we hit it off, then subsequent visits can be as long as you wish.

In my area (Phoenix), 30 minute visits are quite unusual except when certain girls run specials that might involve just a BJ.

For lead time, I would recommend a week in advance for best results.

If you're going to a major sporting event or major Vegas convention, you better book 3-4 weeks in advance to get the girl you wish.

If it's last minute, then go ahead and contact (either voice messages or email)  3-4 girls simultaneously. Most will already be booked but you might get lucky and get someone with a cancellation.

Regards,
Chrissy in Phoenix

Being new to the hobby, I have experimented a bit with this question.  It's a dilemma.  On one hand, a one hour meeting (or shorter) is better financially if things don't work out well.  On the other hand, a longer session allows you to relax more and get to know the provider better, which can greatly enhance the experience.  

In my personal opinion, I strongly prefer longer sessions, even if at the first meeting, because I am just more comfortable. One hour or less is too short, and feels rushed, even if the provider is great.  But what that means is more research. If going on a longer meeting, she has to have consistent and excellent reviews that are detailed enough to give you the real deal.  I recently had a two hour first meeting that was amazing, but I did my homework first.

Good luck!