OK I've mainly been a SD for the last year, but that's a tough lifestyle for me, not money wise, but emotion wise. I didn't want to go the provider route just yet so I figured a rub and tug would suit me just fine. It did. The lady, yes I reviewed her on the site I found her on and I'll review her here too as I just found her, was amazing got me to completion which believe me is a task. I'm almost always soft with new women the first time, hence not wanting to go the provider route. If I can't get it up then touching and feeling on both our parts is still hella fun. So then I'm doing mass amounts of research here and start looking at the massages with HE.
I went with an ad that was FBSM as I was looking for just massage and a HE and didn't offer full service. I did this for a few reasons I figured a FBSM was more in a private location and I figured the chances of getting raided by LE were absolutely none as opposed to a place like a regular massage parlor with a bunch of rooms and people. Now if anyone can help with my questions I'd appreciate it, as I said I read back posts to past 8 years, but still would like some clarification. 1. Are FBSM the same as a place that has massages or are the massage places mostly full service they just use that pretext to get you in? I'm looking for a massage (doesn't have to be a great one) a happy ending and being able to touch her. DATY would be great too. Not looking for FS. 2. I'm not talking walk in places in a strip mall I'm talking if I search TER for a girl I like, not sure if I can mention her here as an example even though she's highly review, that does massage and she's Asian and her ad is like most the massage parlor ads, what should I expect when I setup an appointment and go there. Is it going to be in a strip mall, an apartment, will she have her own place or will there be multiple rooms with multiple girls? Basically my main concern is getting busted, not by the girl from what I gleaned here if she's got reviews she's mostly likely legit, but getting busted by cops. 3. The girls I'm looking at with reviews here, their web page has no details and I know they don't like to discuss details. So should I just ask their rate and assume that's the base price and it can go up from there or assume it's the full service price and just pay that to do what I like? Thanks in advance.
What I mean is, there are some locations that are FS AMPs and massage is barely involved. I think that you are asking more about the storefront legit massage parlors (many are staffed by Asian masseuses). Search this board (Massage Parlors) for Author = mrfisher . He provides a lot of advice based on his experiences in the "regular" MPs and sometimes getting a masseuse to feel comfortable with him and getting extra service.
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Some points I remember: take it slow ... it might take several visits ... etc. ... etc. ... etc..
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Good luck!
OK I've mainly been a SD for the last year, but that's a tough lifestyle for me, not money wise, but emotion wise. I didn't want to go the provider route just yet so I figured a rub and tug would suit me just fine. It did. The lady, yes I reviewed her on the site I found her on and I'll review her here too as I just found her, was amazing got me to completion which believe me is a task. I'm almost always soft with new women the first time, hence not wanting to go the provider route. If I can't get it up then touching and feeling on both our parts is still hella fun. So then I'm doing mass amounts of research here and start looking at the massages with HE.
I went with an ad that was FBSM as I was looking for just massage and a HE and didn't offer full service. I did this for a few reasons I figured a FBSM was more in a private location and I figured the chances of getting raided by LE were absolutely none as opposed to a place like a regular massage parlor with a bunch of rooms and people.
Now if anyone can help with my questions I'd appreciate it, as I said I read back posts to past 8 years, but still would like some clarification.
1. Are FBSM the same as a place that has massages or are the massage places mostly full service they just use that pretext to get you in? I'm looking for a massage (doesn't have to be a great one) a happy ending and being able to touch her. DATY would be great too. Not looking for FS.
2. I'm not talking walk in places in a strip mall I'm talking if I search TER for a girl I like, not sure if I can mention her here as an example even though she's highly review, that does massage and she's Asian and her ad is like most the massage parlor ads, what should I expect when I setup an appointment and go there. Is it going to be in a strip mall, an apartment, will she have her own place or will there be multiple rooms with multiple girls? Basically my main concern is getting busted, not by the girl from what I gleaned here if she's got reviews she's mostly likely legit, but getting busted by cops.
3. The girls I'm looking at with reviews here, their web page has no details and I know they don't like to discuss details. So should I just ask their rate and assume that's the base price and it can go up from there or assume it's the full service price and just pay that to do what I like?
Thanks in advance.
Thanks for the response. I think I'm looking for AAMP and since the rates are much, much lower than an outcall escort I'll just pay for full service and be fine with that.
I'm assuming that a AAMP would be a much safer bet than a known strip mall massage that gives HE. For anyone else reading this the more research I've done in the past day will add to this. FBSM is usually their body on yours mutual touching might be offered, the one I just saw didn't allow that on her privates (top or bottom). Massage with HE from what I've read would most likely be them naked or scantily clad mutual touching might be allowed, seems like most would allow it.Korean Aamps might be difficult to get into without references in socal. Chinese will be easier.
I disagree with your assessment that aamps are safer. If you're concerned about busts, both are pretty damn safe. A non-FS storefront is usually not targeted by LEOs.
I suggest you go on rub-maps (no hyphen) and read up on storefronts knowing exactly what to expect.
The reviews of massage girls on here may be both storefront and aamps. Google the #. If you're afraid of busts, I suggest you pay for rm membership and seek out a place you like with level of service you're comfortable with.
Thanks. I was just guessing as I have no basis.
I've heard that about the Korean ones. Ok I'll check it out. What should I be looking for if I google the number? Oh you mean if it's a storefront or not?Your best bet is checking out AMP sites (preferably in your area) that's dedicated to this specific hobby.